Make the first Move!

• Don't sit back and wait for people to contact you. Search the database, and start sending FREE Mini-Messages straightaway!  What have you got to lose?  Only your single status!  Existing members will be expecting new members to contact them, will be delighted to hear from you, and flattered that you have singled them out.
  
  
• And when you Upgrade and start sending personal messages - don't be shy or agonise about what to say.  You will already have a good idea about their background and interests (some of which you may share) from reading their profile, and it will go without saying that they will share your interest in family life. They may even have made a quirky comment in their profile that has made you laugh!
  
  
• Say why you have chosen to contact them - it's a good way of breaking the ice. The ball is then firmly in their court.